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    Could this, in any way, shape or form, be classified as a bog standard thread...???


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    Quote Originally Posted by pennybarry View Post
    Yes Aposhark, hubby said he'll buy for a bidet for me but I don't know when.
    I never had one specially fitted before the wife arrived, I just happen to have quite a big bathroom and the bidet was installed when the bathroom was originally fitted out many years ago. I must say, it used to be more like an ornament before the wife and step-daughter arrived here, but now it has become indespensible. It appears to be the height of luxury for a Filipina.
    Iain.


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    I've longed to have a bidet for many years. At last I have one ... it's sitting next to me, still in the cardboard box - hopefully the new house will soon be ready and it will be fitted!


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    Bidets are fantastic!
    Be responsible with little so that you can be trusted with much!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by kermit123 View Post
    this comment i really louthed lol for about 20 min sorry but it is so funny lol pennybarry iticy butt lol lol
    lol very funny isnt it? buts its normal i guess


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    yahh....i agree with you......a lot of people in our country from the Philippines think we have such a wonderful lives here in UK.........me as a new here in UK i've been adjusting everything the moods of my husband to be we sometimes have ups and downs......but glad we're coping it to have a great relationship and we have both working it to make work and last.......if i feel stressed or sad just have my walks in the street here to make me feel relax.......we all know here that it will takes time for us to adjust the culture here....especially the accent of thier english language.......a lot of learnings to make to adopt the cultures here.........Mabuhay to all PInay's here.......


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    Maybe the Filipina wives living in England should consider moving north of the Border, as - with a few exceptions [e.g. the pure Doric] - the dialect up here is, by and large, clearer and much easier to comprehend than the many different regional accents to be found in the south. And possibly one of the main reasons for this is because we tend to speak slower. But then, I'm probably biased ... as well as being a trifle hard of hearing.

    Watch out for the "mumblers" though!!!


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    oh boy! this is what my bf told me... i better get rid of my maid then and get used to doing things on my own (again)... hayyy... and I will definitely bring tabo/kabo with me when I get there.. and walis tingting and walis tambo... LOL...


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    Quote Originally Posted by Arthur Little View Post
    Maybe the Filipina wives living in England should consider moving north of the Border, as - with a few exceptions [e.g. the pure Doric] - the dialect up here is, by and large, clearer and much easier to comprehend than the many different regional accents to be found in the south. And possibly one of the main reasons for this is because we tend to speak slower. But then, I'm probably biased ... as well as being a trifle hard of hearing.

    Watch out for the "mumblers" though!!!

    lol... we are from the South West of England... lol and my husband mumbles a lot... it took me quite sometime to get used to it... i was like need to look/read his lips while talking, now I can perfectly understand him (even not looking at him) hahaha... LAZY TALKING as they say..


    Quote Originally Posted by Florge View Post
    oh boy! this is what my bf told me... i better get rid of my maid then and get used to doing things on my own (again)... hayyy... and I will definitely bring tabo/kabo with me when I get there.. and walis tingting and walis tambo... LOL...


    oh so yes... if you are very comfortable living there in the PI and you have got "friends": driver, maid, yaya, cook, labandera etc... hay dito wala ... lol sariling kayod hehehe...

    but you will love the independence and you will learn to trust your own skills, be independent and the "Just Me & U" thing with your fiance/husband...


    P.S.
    But you will miss your loyal "friends" when you are here


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    I've been here for about 5 months already. i hit the cold weather so its not really nice. I cant go out of the house when my hubby isn't with me coz i'm scared. MY hubby bought a measuring cup(big one) for me to use coz i still can't use loo roll to wipe my bum lol, I use it to wash my other thing too.At the moment i'm still adjusting to everything.

    We are not rich too, but i didn't have problem with it coz i am not materialistic. i am happy with what i've got which is an amazing and loving hubby and a sweet little boy
    Mark, Cristina & Raffy


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    LMAO
    Its a serious subject, but it did make me laugh.
    Any upheaval is always difficult, but moving 1/2 way around the world is going to be pretty tough for anyone. My gf moved from Phils to Israel and she said one of the strange things was that (outsiide of the filipino community) no one knew each other. People dont knw their next door neighbours, let alone who lives down the street. We're just not quite as social in many ways.
    Personally I think that links with the weather - we spend less time outside so we're isolated in our own little houses and dont get to interact with those around us. Shame really.


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    its juz a matter of adjustments,be flexible wherever you go


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    Quote Originally Posted by prettywoman View Post
    its juz a matter of adjustments,be flexible wherever you go

    Yep but easy to say than done...
    You will be "taken" away from your comfort zone (our good PI)


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    Quote Originally Posted by PeterB View Post
    I've longed to have a bidet for many years. At last I have one ... it's sitting next to me,
    Sitting next to it, ain't gonna do any good...


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    Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
    Sitting next to it, ain't gonna do any good...
    Our bidet is right next to the toilet, so sitting next to it always does me a power of good.


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    as the saying goes "Theres no place like home"its been a struggle for me in adjusting here until now.
    It's the weather that i can't cope as i can't keep the heater on 24/7 as the bill we go rocket high
    No relatives,friends and family
    Too expensive:
    and loads of tax

    but at the end of the day you're here for one lovely reason and that is to be with the person who you promise to live with for the rest of your life(your british husband)
    Filipina a born survivor!


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    These post makes me apprehensive in coming to UK girls... we got our own comfort zones and its hard to simply get out of it.. is there a positive from these pains? what it is to gain?


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagles View Post
    These post makes me apprehensive in coming to UK girls... we got our own comfort zones and its hard to simply get out of it.. is there a positive from these pains? what it is to gain?
    There's free healthcare and no earthquakes and no typhoons and no mosquitoes and ....... well there must be other things ...... if only I could think of some.

    Iain.


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagles View Post
    These post makes me apprehensive in coming to UK girls... we got our own comfort zones and its hard to simply get out of it.. is there a positive from these pains? what it is to gain?
    it depends, what are ur reasons in coming here in the UK?

    most of us comes here in the UK to be together with our family and loved ones, some to study, some to visit..

    whatever choices and decisions we made there is always sacrifices that comes with it..

    Goodluck with ur visa application..


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    Aww how nice being together with loved ones. Nothing to do with simple economics then.


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    am still here sa pinas.i will buy bidet later.i dont want to experience itchy ass.thanks for the info guys.


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagles View Post
    These post makes me apprehensive in coming to UK girls... we got our own comfort zones and its hard to simply get out of it.. is there a positive from these pains? what it is to gain?
    What is it to gain? Simple, YOU GET TO BE WITH THE MAN YOU LOVE. There's no better gain than that


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    Quote Originally Posted by IainBusby View Post
    There's free healthcare and no earthquakes and no typhoons and no mosquitoes and ....... well there must be other things ...... if only I could think of some.

    Iain.
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    Quote Originally Posted by IainBusby View Post
    There's free healthcare

    Iain.
    one member here say its not free,she said we pay it by tax,well...cant argue to her as she have 2 babies in here now


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    Quote Originally Posted by eagles View Post
    These post makes me apprehensive in coming to UK girls... we got our own comfort zones and its hard to simply get out of it.. is there a positive from these pains? what it is to gain?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    What is it to gain? Simple, YOU GET TO BE WITH THE MAN YOU LOVE. There's no better gain than that

    Spot on SOPHIE!!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophie View Post
    What is it to gain? Simple, YOU GET TO BE WITH THE MAN YOU LOVE. There's no better gain than that
    Well said, Sophie! Without wishing to appear boastful, can I just add that Myrna gave up a lucrative and satisfying professional career in the Phils for the sake of being with ME. Whether or not she can find comparable employment here in the UK, time alone will tell. For the moment, however, she's coping very well with the radical changes in lifestyle - not to mention the unpredictable climatic conditiions - and, moreover, has gained lots of new friends in the process.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Sim11UK View Post
    No Wowowee
    Good point, I forgot about that one.


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    Quote Originally Posted by thejarvs View Post
    I've been here for about 5 months already. i hit the cold weather so its not really nice. I cant go out of the house when my hubby isn't with me coz i'm scared. MY hubby bought a measuring cup(big one) for me to use coz i still can't use loo roll to wipe my bum lol, I use it to wash my other thing too.At the moment i'm still adjusting to everything.

    We are not rich too, but i didn't have problem with it coz i am not materialistic. i am happy with what i've got which is an amazing and loving hubby and a sweet little boy


    wow! cool, you're right sis, i'm tony wife and im here about morethan 2months
    already i'm so happy to be on my hubby side although i miss so much the foods in the pinas specially the vagetables my appetite go low already for missing those foods, not missing so muvh people in pinas but the food i miss so much, and i miss the congragations that i attend in Pinas too.its hard to adjust the weather and to start a job, my hubby is not rich also but im so happy the way he love me and im very content of what i have not in materialistic thing but a loving husband and and knowing God or worshiping our Lord feels me strong,and im happy also that my husband has a strong relationship to our Lord,
    HAVE FAITH IN GOD !


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    Exclamation Re: Filipina's adjusting

    Hi all,
    Can I ask about bed covering most Filipina's need when they come to the UK.
    I want to buy a new bed before my wife arrives, and was wondering what thickness the duvet should be?
    Do most prefer a thick one in the UKs colder weather?
    I realise not all would like the thicker one but am just trying to get a suitable one.
    Thanks,
    Mick.


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    Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
    Hi all,
    Can I ask about bed covering most Filipina's need when they come to the UK.
    I want to buy a new bed before my wife arrives, and was wondering what thickness the duvet should be?
    Do most prefer a thick one in the UKs colder weather?
    I realise not all would like the thicker one but am just trying to get a suitable one.
    Thanks,
    Mick.
    I guess that electric under- or over- blanket would be the best and maybe thinner blanket then Mick....
    Jiri & Maricel


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