Quote Originally Posted by mickcant View Post
Hi shayla, I am afraid my case will not help you, we sumitted an online applacation last April 2008.
After we resolved some issues my wife has re submitted becouse the online referance no would no longer work,
I hope anouther member can help you,
Mick.
It seems to me that if you haven't received an answer by now, you never will.

Sorry, but if you have let her re-submit the application by herself the chances are that there was something wrong somewhere.

After reading your posts regarding the debacle from the very beginning I am still of the opinion that you should jump ship and row as fast as you can away from this sad experience.

I presume rightly or wrongly, that all the forumers here have had constant contact with each other while waiting for the visa to be issued.
Some had to wait longer than others for various reasons, ie. lack of necessary documents, money in the bank, accomodation, no work, etc.
But in the end, they still manage to keep in touch and keep the relationship going, because they want it to succeed, and ultimately they get together again, wether here in the UK or the Philippines is unimportant.

In your case, it is apparent that only one party wants to keep it going.... You.....

Do yourself a big favour, enjoy your retirement, ditch the dubious one-sided relationship and start a quickie divorce.
I am really sorry for you.
But smile because everyday is the first day of the rest of your life, and you never know what is to be found around the next corner....