Devastated - Need advice

[Sim11UK]

Hi! everyone

Real good advice here
I have to thank everyone, who took the time to reply, it's very heart warming.

Mr. Aposhark I actually was pressing to get married on the next trip, obviously she was stalling...Should of seen it coming.

Ginapeterb thank you...it's over as far as I'm concerned. Like you say, there are certain decisions in life, where you don't have to think, you just know. I made that commitment to her, but she couldn't do the same to me.

I have to say, it was a huge relief, making this thread. It took a huge weight off my shoulders.

Tried to phone her earlier, twice in quick succession to get some answers,...No reply.

Sent her a text, that's it, enough is enough.

[Eljohno]

You will meet someone else who will make you very happy as there are plenty of filipino girls out there that will treat you with respect.

[ginapeterb]

Simuk


Good for you mate, you've made the right decision, you have dropped the monkey from your shoulder, bring on the next one, thats far better for you to say that, than her to say, "Bring on the latest sucker"

I am happy for you.

Best wishes and good hunting

[flomike]

...it's over as far as I'm concerned. Like you say, there are certain decisions in life, where you don't have to think, you just know. I made that commitment to her, but she couldn't do the same to me.

sorry to hear your heart ache a very nice love story that ends no where. I feel for you but sometimes you loose some you win some. For sure its her lost not yours. I know you are one of the members here who always give good advice specially when it comes to love. Good luck to you and for sure you will find a fine woman that you deserve. All the best

[joebloggs]

..it's over as far as I'm concerned. Like you say, there are certain decisions in life, where you don't have to think, you just know. I made that commitment to her, but she couldn't do the same to me.

i don't know whether to be sad or happy for you

can you wake away just like that from someone you was prepared to marry ?

without knowing the real reason why she is acting like this ??

easier said than done...

but most are probably right, if she will not talk to you, nothing you can do but move on and forward

[Ady]

Good luck Sim.

It is good you made some decision, maybe the toughest decision of all. Stick to it, that is my advice. And I wish you good luck in the future. You deserve it!

[aposhark]

Mr. Aposhark I actually was pressing to get married on the next trip, obviously she was stalling...Should of seen it coming.

Hi Sim11UK, ah ok, that says a lot.
If only we could understand wimmin

It will take time, but you are strong and as Keith says, there are so many singles on his site, and also so many lovely alluring smiles that we all get when we travel in the Phils.
If it is the end as it looks like, don't be put off by the Phils, it really is the land of absolutely beautiful ladies.
Of course being married to one, I don't really see them, people tell me so
(I have to look the other way, before I get the silent treatment - the Filipina jealousy is mind-boggling at times )

Best of luck and always remember the kisses in the night

[Sim11UK]

Thanks everybody

Can anyone tell me what AJRAAMANT means?...It's quite important.

[aposhark]

Thanks everybody

Can anyone tell me what AJRAAMANT means?...It's quite important.

Just asked the lady at the hotel reception, she has never heard of it......

[Mrs.JMajor]

Thanks everybody

Can anyone tell me what AJRAAMANT means?...It's quite important.

No such kind of words Sim, by the way,hope you really happy enough,just ask on the forum f you want some one new,there are loads of serious for relationship filipina Sim,i can guarantee you and good luck mate