hi ive just come back from cagayan deoro and i met my fiaces family and family is so inportant to them i realy dont think if the family new he had attacked her they would except him into there family i think there is more to it but thats only my opinion but i no my fiance would put me before her family if she truly wants to be with you she will be. think you need to talk to her face to face .good luck.