theres alot of good advice in here and every possible senario!

whatever you decide all the best,the only real way of finding out is going there?

my wife was 31 when i first meet her,as her father sadly already died and when they got told of me her older brother was talking to her like a kid telling what to do and not to do,it wasnt until the 3rd time that i saw her she was no longer checked upon?

while your single and until your married i guess the family still have say in your life?