HI Sim11UK, i've been reading your post and it started 3 wks ago so sad to know the turn up of the events from then on. So many views from some members here and same with the rest i am hoping you could find the right girl for you.
I was surprised to know she at aged 33, still was pressured by her family. If she is deeply in love with you she can make her own decisions as she is of the right age already. I just suspect she has a bf or pregnant? (just my views).
Best of luck and God Bless. Happy searching ..![]()