Devastated - Need advice

[Sim11UK]

Goodluck Sim, wishing u all the best..hope this time everything will be sorted out, u desrved to be happy..

Thank you Kimmi, very kind words.

All I can say is that I hope all goes well in your favour, and get the result you wish for.

Family pressure can break relationships, but if she agreed to see you despite it, might mean that she is willing to be indipendent.

So don't despair, think positive, act positive and all will be ok.

Thanks aromulus, I hope we both get what we wish for...She is certainly very strong.

I am so sorry to hear your sad story sim.it was unexpected never thought you in this situation.I just hope you will get through all this.God Bless

Thanks Mrs Daddy, well hopefully we will get through it.

Reads as if there maybe some good news. But like you say a lot for you to take in. The Wife and I had problems which if we lived round from the corner of one another would most likely been over in the blink of a eye or never happened.

I hope things work out for the best for both of you.

Thanks somebody, I guess this long distance thing makes you fight harder. I know I wasn't really prepared to let it go.
I'm all fired up now...Let me on that plane NOWWWW!!!!!!

I am a newbie and this thread caught my eye. I wish you all the best Sim! I hope it would turn out as a good news! Keep us posted, will you? Take care!

Hi there, nice to meet you...Well, I'm off there tomorrow morning.

Hi there,

Wow!!! you sure have your problems and you don't need to go and look for them. Where do I start?, anyway, I have read your post and to be honest with you if your woman really loves you then she will fight for it and stick with you because no matter what type of hindrances may come you have only one principle on your mind that you have to be true and honest with your feelings and follow what your heart says, well, if you think and feel that she really loves you then no worry you can go on with your plan but if she's doubting where to go wether to follow her family or to be with you then if it's meant to be its meant to be but you're right don't mention about any redundancy money, to be honest if you are going to marry her I think it would be better if she applied for a Marriage settlement visa in Phils. and marry her in the U.K, the visa will take 3 months to process and if she is granted a visa then she can come here to the U.K for 6 months but you must marry her within the 6 months period or she needs to go home. A word of warning, if you are going to settle in the Phils. then you need to be careful if you are buying a lot or house and lot because you can't own the land in your name and you are a foreigner it has to be in your wife's name and thats when the problem can start after you've been together for a while.

Hope I can help you ......

Thank you, wise words indeed...I'll take on board what you are telling me.

yey yey yey... I might be wrong after all!!! yey yey yey!!! everything seems to be good!!! love prevails .. wooohooooo.... god bless you sim.. all's well that ends well!

Thanks Florge, we just have to be sure we want the same thing.