I am glad that you are spending time together and "get to know each other" better to cement that special relationship...
Planning a future, together, now, is of imperative importance as it will impede the family from putting any more spanners in the works.
My suggestion is to buy her a small laptop and get her on broadband so that lines of communication are always open, and in the long run also cheaper.
All the best, we are rooting for you.
Dom & Jet
