Life is difficult enough without having to make it harder for oneself....

We cannot help who we fall in love with, but it seems that the more the baggage carried by the intended partner, the more attracted one is.....
Why....???

With this one I suspect a bit of a scam, to be able to stay in the UK.

Only my opinion.

And in the immortal words of Clint Eastwood in one of his Harry Callahan movies.....
"Opinions are like holes, everybody has got one, and some of 'em stink".....