My other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
My other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
Tell him that next time you are going out with the girls and he can look after the baby and not to bother looking for the remotes because you have them with you......Originally Posted by scottishbride
My other half is going to boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
Bit drastic with the remotes I guess..... Suppose you could negotiate on that.....
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OOpsss... Sorry Sir, It wont happen again.
I understand how you feel..I think it's ok for him to go out with the boys once in awhile. But if it's taking too much, you both need to sit down and talk about it.
I'm just lucky that me and my bf had lots of it years ago and we can say, BTDT to it and now, we are just concentrating on building a good future for our new lives as couples and for our kids later on.
It feels bad if he leaves because even if he is just going out for a couple of hours, you will miss him as if he'll be away for days!
am on arumolus next time do the thing that he does to you and ask him how he feels but mind you night out its sames ordinary here all my workmates they goes out every friday night while am just satisfied being at home watching telly and cuddle with my man
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Also you should warned those friends those who go with your behalf not to give any presents ,usually they give stag partyMy other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
just joking Mel, dont take it seriously,
Much better not to allow men to have stag party..just to be safe
What do you think? Selfish? hehehe
He doesn't mind me going out and have a girl's night out. I am just worried that his friends will have a big box present for him and like Juliet said, whoaala! A woman will come out and do a strip dance. I don't mind if I am the woman inside the box He! He!
I had a same problem.
I told my hubby that he can go out with his friends but as long he comes back on the agreed time and won't get too drunk but he never listen. We just always ended up.
MEEEEEEEENNNNNNN, I hate it!!!
Not an expert, I only try to help.
I think I have a problemI always push my husband to got out with his mates. Before I came here he used to visit his mates or go out for a drink in the pub or watch football.And never see him drunk yet lol! But since I came he stop it, i was so worried at first I might be too selfish
Aye, you've got the same problem as my kumare's husband. Talk to him , hope u will be alright
Same here Ann, when we were singles,we're both party people but now we have family and everything has changed. My husband told me too that he had enough to those bad habbits he had before and I feel the same. we just always want to spend most of our time with family specially when our kids are still young we've got always a handful of jobsI think I have a problem
Aye, you've got the same problem as my kumare's husband. Talk to him , hope u will be alright
Not an expert, I only try to help.
Very true LadyjSame here Ann, when we were singles,we're both party people but now we have family and everything has changed. My husband told me too that he had enough to those bad habbits he had before and I feel the same. we just always want to spend most of our time with family specially when our kids are still young we've got always a handful of jobs
I think you should let him know exactly how you feel. Compromise. Let him go and let him have fun but he should know his limits and should not get too wild and too drunk.
hiya!thats the problem if u have a babyMy other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
me and my hubby has no baby[we didnt know how to do it now,ha ha ha]thats why we always go together were ever we want to go
[night clubbing,travelling]
Well lucky enough if my husband will drink twice a month
Just talk to him, let him know how you feel and that way you're being honest
It's good to have money and the things that money can buy, but it's good to check up once in a while to make sure you haven't lost the things that money can't buy.
Im like your hubby I may go out but be there and done it and dont think its right to leave the other stuck at home while im out partying hard. I have work commitments like today where free drink is there but an adult should know when to say no ta surely?I think I have a problem
Aye, you've got the same problem as my kumare's husband. Talk to him , hope u will be alright
Never felt the urge to drink to excess since the missus is here, if you cant stop after a few drinks you have a problem so go see a doctor.
Even in Phill there was a big party while we were there and i sat on the blokes table and oh boy i drank plenty being polite but even when all around me falling about felt now im married you should "hold it down"
The Missus now days tends to go out more than me but again i wont expect her to go out and come back sozzled.
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
My husband's likes beer too andyI never say no coz he deserves it like u he has control in his intakes
His only pleasure now is his beer, xbox and football in the telly while playing with jamesIm so proud of him
I think his biggest pleasures mam would be your good self and wee James then beer x box and footballMy husband's likes beer too andy
His only pleasure now is his beer, xbox and football in the telly while playing with james
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
Hi all!
Im fine if my husband goes out with his mates, although its not a regular thing, I know he needs some time out...same with me, he lets me go to parties while he looks after our boys. We take turns and we both are home by 12mn anyway. Most of the time we just stay home and watch a film. But lately his mates pop around instead on weekends to unwind, they drink beer while playing xbox live which I sometimes have a good laugh specially when they are losing :P
But if it bothers you and he does it excessively, have a talk then.
Well I'm **** off 'cause my wifes gone out and left me to watch Japanese porn! Japanese porn? Um, I meant get bored..
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Well he make up last night by giving a dozen of red roses and said: Happy Valentines honey! So it made my night, and all my worries are gone. And he wasn't drunk.
[QUOTE=scottishbride;114987]My other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
My hubby never goes out with any mates
When I was in Holland, I met dozens of Filipina married to dutch, germans and belgians. I told them I am going to marry my english BF soon. They formed a party called FOR LADIES ONLY no husband, no BF. That was my first time to see a STRIPPER with whip cream in his bodylolsssss
Nice one there AndyI think his biggest pleasures mam would be your good self and wee James then beer x box and football
you are lucky sis me i want my hubby to go out with his friends but he don't want to goMy other half is going for a boy's night out tonight!! Leaving me and my baby alone! I hate it when he comes home drunk! Am I selfish if I stop him and ask him to stay?
all things are possible!
Well he make up last night by giving a dozen of red roses and said: Happy Valentines honey! So it made my night, and all my worries are gone. And he wasn't drunk.
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
you are lucky sis me i want my hubby to go out with his friends but he don't want to go
I never seen my husband drunk in 5 years of marriage
Here, he is driving so he can't have morethan a pint if he is with his mate and if we're together...good that I am not driving then
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