I have used FH, but you should first read some stuff around before, like for instance my own posting under the title "you have been ripped off". To make a long story short, if a girl gives you tales like "my sister wants to sell the family computer and if she does we can't communicate" or "I need 20.000 pesos to apply for a good job in the UK" or "our house just burnt down, we have lost everything", just run away........ well if you are not too naive you'll find out by yourself what's good and what's rotten..... also beware of those who call you "Sweetheart" or "Honey" after two or three messages and who speak of love and marriage even before they have basic info about you.