Forgive me for saying this but usually Men (rather than filipina women) have the tendency to stray

Why is it always assumed that ?

... from a recent report...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/devon/7884090.stm
Mr Brindley ......... had met (Precious) in the Philippines when they were working for the same firm. They married and had a son and in 2006 Precious went to salsa classes where she had an affair with the teacher. She later confessed to her husband, the jury heard.

... granted, stabbing her 5 times was a triffle excessive

... but it's not all "one-way" traffic.