My research here in the Phils suggests that in on line relationships (especially before having met) the Ladies will still be talking to potential partners and that a first past the post(arrival here) is the norm

Of course im not suggesting that is other than a fairly high percentage and of course does not apply to anyone here on the forum

This is not considered as cheating in the Phils but the opposite would be

And as kukurakuk says checking out the multiple yahoo messenger IM accounts and email addresses can be very educational especially the chat archives held on personal pc,s and the sent box of yahoo emails

Do pm if you need more exaustive info