Thank you for your advice i have researched the filipina culture alot for about 6 months now and the conclusion that i always seem to come back to is this.
its far better to be introduced to a lady than just pack your bags and fly over there as then at least you will know a little about the girl and her family which as you point out is quite right. i fully understand the concept and the different cultures thats why i prefer a lady without children as in my opinion and its purely my opinion that if the child couldnt settle or has difficaulty adapting to the british culture it may be of harm to the child in the long term.
to be honest friend i havent been unindated with offers at all.
i am a little wary of joining a dating site as you dont know for sure if the girls on there really exist and it maybe just a scam to nick your £120 per year membership.
this way seems to be the best way of finding a lady, i mean an introduction by someone on this site or a relative of a lady also on this site.
when would your step daughter be visiting the uk?
kind regards john