Quote Originally Posted by aromulus View Post
Undoubtly some members will have contacted you already with offers of introductions.

My question to you would be really very simple, How would you feel if the lady in question had a child or two in tow???

Personally I would not put any barriers against this thought.
Many members ,here, met their wives under different circumstances, and lots of them by going directly to the Philippine Islands for one reason or the other, never thinking to meet the perfect match.

And quite a few of them, admirably, have taken the wife's baggage on their shoulders as it should be, because if you happen to love someone you would think about their happiness too.
Personally I am looking forward to when we will be able to bring my stepdaughter over here.
Which apart from downloading viruses on the pc, is an absolute angel.
When you marry a Filipina, you also marry the whole family, which would be an alien concept to British culture.

Thank you for your advice i have researched the filipina culture alot for about 6 months now and the conclusion that i always seem to come back to is this.
its far better to be introduced to a lady than just pack your bags and fly over there as then at least you will know a little about the girl and her family which as you point out is quite right. i fully understand the concept and the different cultures thats why i prefer a lady without children as in my opinion and its purely my opinion that if the child couldnt settle or has difficaulty adapting to the british culture it may be of harm to the child in the long term.
to be honest friend i havent been unindated with offers at all.
i am a little wary of joining a dating site as you dont know for sure if the girls on there really exist and it maybe just a scam to nick your £120 per year membership.
this way seems to be the best way of finding a lady, i mean an introduction by someone on this site or a relative of a lady also on this site.
when would your step daughter be visiting the uk?
kind regards john