You have missed a few posts fella! :-)
I visited Miriam for the first time at the end of April last year for 2 weeks. Went back for nearly 3 weeks over Christmas/New Year just gone. Going back for 2 weeks in June this year, then the plan is to get married at the end of this year :-)
Fears-wise. That girl is long long gone thanks to help and advise from you guys, Iain in particular, for which I'm very grateful! :-)