Thank you all for your advise.. Yes he was born in October 2008..she has kept all the clinic bills and we have photo's of her preggy (and.......her friend took a mobile phone video of the birth which she wants me to watch!!! No Chance...it'll put me off women for life.. hehehe) the advice on the extension was great...again many thanks...and thanks LadyJ.. yes. we are both Gwapo.. he has my big ears, big nose, big... well I'm sure you get the picture..again..thanks for all the replies..