hi monkeyface sorry to hear ur sad story.hope u will get over it soon i know how hard it is the feelings to lost ur love. jelousy is normal but it defends,i think u have the right to get jelouse to them coz of the way they exchange messeges to each other sounds still there.or maybe im wrong but my husband has 2 ex his devorce 2x and he always have communcations to both of them coz of thiere kids but they dont talk like sweet or there past they talk about the kids.and i dont mind to taht coz i have kids too and i know the feelings. anyway i wish ur happiness and soon u well meet someone better than him.