Hi mickandsheryll,
As said above don't ask comparison cause it's so hurting if unfavorable to u, unless u are ready about it. Same as u, few months of my marriage I did asked my husband about his ex, even not asking him I can tell that he loves her very much because he keeps mentioning her and even keep things belong to her though they got divorced 25 years ago (pictures, love letters, dresses etc.) ...yes I felt jealous but I didnt get angry instead I told him how I feel just normal talks like a friend, then we end up compromising, so I asked him about the things belong to her ex if I can throw them and give the dresses to charity, and then he agreed and everything is fine. It's only a matter of good communication, as I understand u are his wife now so keep the good things and even more, put the past behind your back and face the future, don't get angry quickly, just tell him how u feel and suggest to him the possible remedy and arrangement for that feeling. Everything can be resolved in a good talk and nice cup of tea!! hope this will help
