hi shay thank you so much for the advice just dont know where to turn too,im so hurt at the moment its really so hurt me.everytime we talk online he always ask about my visa when is gonna be here i always said i cant tell coz the eco r the the one who decide when they want to release it,and i keep going to embassy manila coz i live near here still the people there cant answer me.he is so upsit for my answer coz i dont know what to say coz the people at embassy dont answer me too.ur lucky that ur husband never gv up waiting for u,mine i just feels im just the one who keep the waitig and not giving up,all i want is to be him and be happy to be with him for the rest of my life i dont ask for anything just him his love.