Quote Originally Posted by nids123 View Post
hi good day to all of u here,i thought i wont post like this here,my problem now is my husband sounds he wanna gv up on me waiting for me in uk. we talk this morning oline and we dont well his upsit of something and told me to canceel my visa coz it wont happened and he have enough of me waiting,he said just go on with ky life and he go on of his life,he told me to sell the unit he purchase here and he said sell everything here.guys i really dont understand y my husband act this wayim so hurt ive done nothing wrong here all i do is work to sopport myself here and wait till i got my visa release,ispend to much preasures hurts for bieng part from him its bee 6 months already sence we been part the communication only we have is tx and internet.i dont expect this way our love story its just gonna end lkike this,the other day we have plann that we keep the unit for rent while we r there in uk and work together to save for our future and save money to buy for another hojuse after 5 years.guys i odnt know what to do i dont wanna lose him god knows how much i love him,his my life my everything.hope i could get help from all of u here.
It's a part of long waiting dear. Just give him space and understand his situation. Waiting drives us crazy. To tell you frankly, my hubby was almost give up before because my visa was refused and he filed an appeal. It was a long wait as my documents submitted at Home Office was lost inside their office. We waited for 2 years for the process. I received a letter from UK home office that my visa was approved, but still the embassy in Manila was still holding my passport due to unknown reason. After two weeks, I started to send FAX to them, more fax and calls but still I received nothing. UNtil, I went to the embassy knock their door and the next few days, I got it.
The long wait was horrible but I just kept calm and busy with my shop, hubby that time was not calm, he felt bad against how my papers lost and how slowly the processing.
I was still lucky I won two times in a raffle which is free tour to europe. That was lovely we had romantic dates in Holland,Germany,Belgium and France. I think we deserve that as we really inlove.
So cheer up, don't loose hope, he'll comeback to your arms later