I think the best thing you can do is to pray and be strong. don't let your stress get over you. you need to be strong for your weak honey at the moment. like what the others say give him a little space and when you both more relax then you can tell him that its not worth giving up everything just because you are both getting frustrated of waiting about your visa.
Things like this is just a trial for relationship. There'll be ups and down all the time, the key to get through it is to support each other or to support the one that is getting weak.
> Mrsjarv
As Cristina says the proccess is a very bumpy road, as a man I know that sometimes we keep things from you and try to deal with issues ourselves thinking it will save you from the stress. I'm sure he will snap out of it when he has a moment to settle his mind.
Hope all goes ok, stay strong and positive it's the only way
>Mrjarv