Hi Nids,
Patience is a virtue!! But that's the fun of it: LONG WAITING then LIFETIME HAPPINESS...
Always remember: In every dark cloud, there is a bright sunshine behind it. Just keep your head up and SMILE...
With Scott&Ligaya's reply, think it is best if your husband will be a member of this forum too... This is like our "REFUGE" hehehehe......
People with similar situations tend to help themselves by comparing notes and giving advices...
For couples who are now together due to successful visa applications: they are so willing to give their opinions, views and advices --->>> (as they were like you: who have HOPED, LOST HOPED
, THEN hoped again
. So, they are just repaying back what they have learnt, by: "PAYING IT FORWARD" TO NEWBIES)
CHEERS NIDS!