It is most likely that all that long speech about nothing is only used as an excuse to whatever he has in mind of doing. Or not..... Whichever is the case.
One thing is sure in my mind tho....... Start moving on and find yourself someone more reliable without fake religious hang-ups.
The answers to the question about having a meaningful relationship are very simple...
Yes....
Or
No....
There is no need to get into a one sided theological debate.... Just to obfuscate, confuse and escape from making a life changing decision when simply asked.
For a minute I thought "Tom" wrote that....