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[rusty]

Hi everyone, i just want to ask if its not normal that i am afriad to go out if my hubby is not with me?any advice of how can i overcome my fear:(, i want to be able to leave the house with my son even if my hubby is not with me.coz thats what he wanted me to do. thanks everyone..

mrsjarv

It's not unusual to feel this way, my wife has been here for 4 weeks and has only been out once alone to the local corner shop.

She says its cold outside and worried she will get lost.

At the moment I am at home as im out of work so I am walking around our town so she can get familiar with it.

My tip would be to start with small trips outside, then try to go for longer each time.

[scott&ligaya]

Don't worry,
like everyone has said just take your time. Where are you in West Yorks, there may be another member fairly close who could come over and you perhaps take you to the nearest shopping centre for coffee and chat.

In a few months time you will look back at this thread and laugh at yourself..

take care

[Ana_may365]

i've been here 3 years now but until now i didnt try to go anywhere w/o my hubby.coz we always go together anywhere,after we finish to our pigeons we visit our greyhounds in the kennels of our trainer.and after that we visit some of our friends in thier houses.we go to ireland,phils,thailand,cambodia,manchester,oxford,etc,etc

[Jay&Zobel]

i've been here 3 years now but until now i didnt try to go anywhere w/o my hubby.coz we always go together anywhere,after we finish to our pigeons we visit our greyhounds in the kennels of our trainer.and after that we visit some of our friends in thier houses.we go to ireland,phils,thailand,cambodia,manchester,oxford,etc,etc

doing things together!!! i love that!


parehas tayo hehe...

[thejarvs]

doing things together!!! i love that!


parehas tayo hehe...

I enjoy doing things when i am with him aswel. everything is boring when i am just alone:(

[Jay&Zobel]

We go to town every weekend hoping we will meet some filipina that is married to a british coz its quite uneasy if just normal phil..
Anyway, Thank you again everyone

Yeah, I have the same feeling as well, I've been dying to see Pinays married to Brits, been here for almost 3 yrs now, havent met anyone yet. It is just different right? Being in the same boat?
I've seen lots of Pinays here, they are either snobbish or just doesnt care... Just sad...

I enjoy doing things when i am with him aswel. everything is boring when i am just alone:(

Aww bless you