where you now Ji&Ma[/QUOTE]
Now I am living in Oxfordshire - Bicester and my fiancee Maricel is in Makati. Just wish for her to be in her already, feelin bit lonely without her by my side... :( Going to apply for her visa soon so we keep praying, fingers crossed...
Now I am living in Oxfordshire - Bicester and my fiancee Maricel is in Makati. Just wish for her to be in her already, feelin bit lonely without her by my side... :( Going to apply for her visa soon so we keep praying, fingers crossed...[/QUOTE]
Ohhhhhhhhh ! Wish you Good luck ,dont worry stay on the forum while preparing documents and you will be alright,and tell her about the forum so she can get some tips preparing all the necessary docs
No worries MrsJ, thank you. I've gathered lots of information from this forum already. Preparation of the documents is bit more on my side right now though, coz there is more to be done in here than back in Phils - I mean all those letters, statements, confirmations etc etc... But, with thanks to this forum, we are gettting better and better. I'm very close to send that pile of papers over to Makati to Maricel, it is going to be her time to "play ball" for a while But I'm going to support her as much as I can through that time...She doesn't seem so, but she is tough girl and she has all my confidence.
You're right Kimmi, but remote or not, it's still part of UK, I advise them to visit lovely Scotland. Hubby said he lived in London for 17 years saved nothing as all is expensive, busy, traffic etc. He loves to live here now PEACE and QUIET.
Anyway, we have places in the PHilippines called remote. Who lives there?
[QUOTE=charlwill;122295][SIZE=3]Do I b****y care? I don't want to give a damn to those people who have this kind of attitude as long as I am not asking my daily needs to them.
I absolutely agree with that Ms Charlwill.....and also why Pinays are like that coz theyre a bit insecure for some reason....my hubby always told me everytime were at the mall and saw some pinays, sometimes it made me laugh coz im sure theyre not pinay theyre THAI or TAI....
but for those who dont care, well ignore me coz i dont care too as long as they wont say a word against me ..
Cheers
As what I was informed, you can find the best place to live in UK in Scotland particularly at Edinburgh...and it seems, there are lots of actors and actresses originated there...too bad I couldn't remember the names my hubby told me....
yes i've noticed it too but it was bec of the word "remote".
Anyway, there are really a lot of different reactions when we happen to see filipinas. There are good, not so good, snobbish, friendly, smiling faces, don't bother at all, accomodating, etc etc.
They are still filipinas.... our kababayans....
If we don't know them then we can't judge..
If we know them and they react that way then....it must be bec of the changes of the lifestyle they are now enjoying in this country which they haven't experienced at all hence the arrogant attitudes and snobbish...
Culture shock baga:
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
I noticed....
so to go back to the topic...I will share my experience...
after 2 months of giving birth, me and my husband went to the shopping center here in Milton Keynes with our little baby boy.
We were at a certain shop (Debenhams) looking for a perfume when I heard a couple of women speaking in Tagalog...I got sooo excited and said HELLO to them, but they just said "hi" and turned away...
I was quiet disappointed really...
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
Hey, I am not the one who started it. I just only replying to some off topic reply. NOP, I grew up in the city but I really hate cities. When I went to Scotland I visited lots of places and I just saying what I think of Scotland. For me, Scotland is a very lovely place and not a remote one. And one more thing as I've said about my previous reply in this topic. I am not going to give a damn to those people who have a bad attitude towards their fellow country men. As long as I am not asking my daily needs from them. Do I care? and why should I let them ruin my day. Aside from that we should not going to comment them because for sure they have the reason why they act like that. Maybe they have a bad experience to her fellow countrymen. This is not only a filipino thingy or attitude but of course anywhere in the world and in every race.
These are my views:
We Filipinos are known to be warm, friendly, affectionate, fun and happy people. Even if we have problems, still we know how to smile.
When we committed mistakes, we laugh at them.
Kahit walang pera, smile pa rin (Even without money, still we know how to smile). Just a concrete example: Pinoys living in slum areas (poor, depressed, oppresed etc... when being televised they are so ever smiling with full enthusiasm and waving on the camera because of an immediate fame) or even joining the noontime TV gameshows...
The reasons why I think MrsJMajor posted this thread and plenty have replied:
1) To see if the Pinoys who have left their own land still have the same attitude. Are they still fun-loving, happy, friendly, warm? (The answers can be cruel)
2) We kind of expect our fellow countrymen to smile back when being smiled upon.
3) We have that passion. The eagerness. The hunger of meeting other Pinoys in this foreign land...
4) We wanted to feel at home away from home.
5) We wanted to feel welcome, to belong (especially for those who are newcomers). It isn't that easy for some...
6) And lots more...
Living in this country can be tough, can be wonderful, can be just normal... Great for those who were able to adjust easily. Sad for some... But it doesn't mean that we should stop being 'us' (Pinoys)...
Smile is very contagious and free so why be grumpy...
http://www.snopes.com/science/smile.asp
Yes, you can't please everybody... If they dont smile back then at least you made yourself HAPPY .
fortunately my wife has had only good experiances when meeting her fellowmen.they have enjoyed chatting away. sometimes i have been walking along with my wife in a public place and find us getting stared at though.
at first i forget my wifes from the philippines and think what the hell are they looking at.
then i remember and realise they are just being curious.
Hi Julietttttttttttttt,,,if I will see you there..beso beso and hugzz of course lol. My brother advice me seriously about filipinos who are there already in Uk is...AVOID FILIPINOS.lol. My brother work in England for 2 years as Lineman,just back to PI last November 2008.What he mean is baka yan ang sisira sa Samahan ng mag asawa.Hope you get what i mean.Beacause we have a crab mentality.
Mishuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu friend.Invited kami ha? Muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Yes I agree as Pinay loves malls, loves to see nice buildings. We love window shoppings too
So if it is a disaster for you if you don't go out and buy, then LOndon is right place for you!
If you have not much money but loves window shopping, LOndon is still right place for you.
I have a filipina friend here who just moved here from London and everytime she visits her cousin there, she brings ampalaya, talong Pinoy, and tocino
But we are also close to Edinburgh, there's bus stop infont of our house and there's bus bound to Edinburgh. Everytime I visit my friend there, I buy ampalaya and pinoy talong
The only differs is if we live in city proper, there's full of temptations to buy what you want and hard to control spending. I am sure if I live in London or Edinburgh, I will pamper myself oftentimes
May i add this ...my husband got more filipino's friendS than me in England ..I we like traviling and i'ved traveled almost anywhere in europe and i say its 2 out 10 who i meet are nice people and the 8 are just mind there own thing and save their money ..........to be what they called in the PHILPPINES "DONYA" so everytime a see or meet filipinas in street or shopping or everywhere i tend to mind my own business.
then they were shocked, because you see girls, you wives of British men, do not have jobs, you cannot get jobs, because you only came here, with foreigner man and use your charms, but you never had to work, in your life, because mana from heaven fall into your plate.
Sir JOebloggs, just curious why some filipinas thought of this????
They also have to consider that not all women who came over to the UK and married a British man cannot get jobs and was able to come to this country bec they used their charms. What about those that has properties back home and is receiving monthly produce out of the farms, rental from apts, or other family business? Some has inherited properties (mana) from their parents and so they still receive earnings even if they are already married here which the rest of the family is aslo receiving. There is what we call the "Extra Judicial Partition of Properties" which each and every sibling is entitled to even they are already married. So not all women who married a foreigner and came over here started from zero.
Just sharing some thoughts...
" The people who mean something to your life are not rated "the best" don't have the most money, haven't won the greatest prizes....
They are the ones who care about you, take care of you, those who, no matter what, stay close by... "
MY Mom never gives me part of her earnings from the farm I have one mana property but gave it to my sis who is much needed it
Extra Judicial is no way as my Mom is still alive and kicking at 81
I want her to live forever if needed. MIss you NANAYLOVE YOUuuu
My hubby started from zero but don't know the law of UK if he is an heir
hi mrs major evy sends her regards to you too. she settles in just fine ,happy with me and my family and met some pinoy friends who came to her welcome party.
she says she would like to speak to you as well
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