Very Happy Newbie but little worried
Hi everyone... I'm avid reader here for almost 1 year now and this sites helped me so much. I'm so glad i find time to share my story.
Me and my Hon Simon met 4 years & 11 months ago (today is our MOnthsary) and we will get married this coming April 18 and April 12 his mum,dad and friends will cum also I'm very excited. Don't be shocked. We never met personally. I'm sure you will think why i accepted his proposal. Even me I questioned my decision i made but I'm happy with my decision and I'm excited because his coming very soon.
Let me tell you about our love story. It started when my Mom went to province coz my great grand mother died. Me, my sister, aunt and cousin stay in our house. My cousin ask me to chat. I chat but only to my Dad whose working in Saudi Arabia for so many years now. I don't chat to other coz for me it is waste of time, money, effort & its not good. But April 14 about 11 pm my idea about chatting changed and more when i read this site. My cousin forced me to try to stop studying & I did. When i went to chat rooms many send messages i replied and if they ask my waist line i ignore & find someone to talk who is nice and gentleman I'm so lucky my hon say Hi and how are you & ask good things not like others i feel that his gentleman & got interested to c him. I asked him to view his webcam he didnt hesitate when i c him i got attracted to him and he looks kind also i find him so cute wearing his burburry cap and jacket. When he asked me to view my webcam i worry maybe when he c me he go. He was only 2nd one i allow to c me online 1st was my dad. But before i invite him i joked not to be afraid of me coz I'm not beautiful. When he saw me his reaction was he smiled and say woooowwww and that he likes me. I feel very happy and relief coz we continue to talk he asked about personal things, about family & all are good things. He asked my cell number since then we communicate everyday. before i sleep and before i go to school, call me, and text me. I feel his kindness after few days he said that he loves me i felt his sincerity but in my mind its impossible. I think many times and I let him expressed his feelings toward me but one day i tell him i love him he was very happy. i said i love him meaning we are. I'm a type of person i preferred to know & tried the person inside the relationship and in our relationship i realized and I proved that we can learned to love a person much if he deserve and we really want with prayers. Every time i feel i'm not happy i pray to feel more love. But before i decided to give my whole heart i asked him to talk to my Dad for blessing of our relationship of course hes my bf he should know about it. to let him know that I'm serious to him. Since my dad was so strict. They had talked man to man. My dad told him straight he has so many dreams for us that's why he's working away form us and he don't like us to be hurt. And asked him to stop if he don't have good intentions to me. My hon said that he loves me & he made promises that he will wait me, respect and love me. And they had agreement that i must finish my college coz I'm Engineering student that time. In fairness he keeps his promises. He waits me, allow me to review and took my board exam and work for 1 year. Since he wants us to get marry before. He asked me twice already and say no 1st he wants before i graduate so after grad i can cum in UK i said I want to grad college before i marry after grad ask me again but i told him i want to took my board exam he got upset ask me if i really have plan to marry him coz if i dont have much better we put end to our relationship and he gave me time to think. after 2 days i said YES i will marry you after my exam and i promised to him. but after my exam November he told me that his business but he has partner which is chinese restau not good so no chance to cum visit me and marry me after exam i feel so sad coz that was the best time for me coz im not busy but i have to understand his situation i think this time is my turn to wait for him so i study again coz i failed to take exam again but my family got financial problem so I need to work. March got hired and only 1 year contract and same month he decided with his business partner to close coz of bankrupt and after a week he worked as waiter I feel little sad and worry but more feel proud of him coz he not choose what work the important is his working and becum He become manager. then we plan to get marry April 14 he saves his salary and holidays so he can stay here for more than 1 month. Our relationship for me is very strong coz and best even we dont met because God is our center of our relationship. he change a lot. he always make even simple things special & try to make me happy just for me. He's family very nice to me his mum and dad, bros and their gf are my frends and sister in US she likes me for Simon. They are one of the reason why we strong and me more. because i count my blessings when i choose to love him its unmeasurable compare that we don't met.
The little sad about it my friends were happy for me and believe that our love is true but my relatives who supposed to believe me discourage me and judge me. I heard and knew many bad things comes from them. But like my family and friends told me to what you know is good and don't mind them. And i just understand them.
And I worry maybe because we don't meet personally before we marry maybe when i apply for visa i get denied. But i have lots of evidence that we constantly communicate thru text, call, chat, and some letters and cards. Emails from his sisters and his friends. His boss write letter that he will hire me and we will stay in a room in his restaurant. Sorry if this is too long..... :-)
Anybody have same experience. I'm open with your opinions and advises feel free.
Thank you so much!
,just "come" 
Originally Posted by Mrs.JMajor
, they are just jealous..
but on the other end it takes such a long time to know someone perfectly!!!
