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    playing hard to get??

    well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

    is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me

    neil..


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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeob View Post
    well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

    is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me

    neil..
    The pessimist would say she has something to hide

    The opitimist would say you might have found a great girl who has the sense to take it slow

    Its working out which was is right which you will probably only find out with time


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    Quote Originally Posted by Eljohno View Post
    The pessimist would say she has something to hide

    The opitimist would say you might have found a great girl who has the sense to take it slow

    Its working out which was is right which you will probably only find out with time

    sometimes its what they call...slowly but surely... still, patience is a virtue...and it makes life easier...
    insanity- doing the same thing over and over again,expecting a different outcome...


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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeob View Post
    well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

    is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me

    neil..


    Hehehe... when she said its too early for u to meet, then respect her decision... sometimes its good to wait... courting a Filipina needs lots of patience, time etc.. yep think its part of our culture hehe Playing hard to get.. i dunno...


    Jay & I have personally met after 6 years of writing snailmails & emails.. hehe, well i wasnt playing hard to get but time was indeed well spent!
    Let your lady know you better and know her too! Love is patience...Love is kind..


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    Thanks for the advice,,wow 6 yrs of snail mails, thats realy somin

    theres me getting ready to go after 3 weeks lol

    neil


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    Filipino's = Ladies.

    UK birds = ...on the first night
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    Points to ponder:

    HARD TO GET IS BETTER THAN EASY TO GET!!! hehe


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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeob View Post
    well ,,, i have been writing to a lady for about 3 weeks now ,,we web cam nearly everyday, talk on the phone, and exchance a long email everyday, and texts,,she seems like a very decent girl... i offered to come to meet her in November,,, and she said we havent known each other long enough yet to get to that stage.

    is that a normal reply after 3 weeks??? this is all new to me

    neil..
    It would be nice to meet her in person, but i wonder y she don't seem like having an interest in meeting you very soon. Maybe she's hiding something, you should find it out!

    PS.. Filipina won't stay at first night......... you stay alone ok?
    Scot ===>

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    Quote Originally Posted by scotsfiancee View Post
    It would be nice to meet her in person, but i wonder y she don't seem like having an interest in meeting you very soon. Maybe she's hiding something, you should find it out!

    PS.. Filipina won't stay at first night......... you stay alone ok?
    or hands on............. pocket maybe


    "You don't have to be a certain age to fall in love;
    although you've maybe been told you're to young.
    For those who tell you that,
    that don't know what is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misscarie View Post
    or hands on............. pocket maybe
    It's not that itchy noh?
    Scot ===>

    "The world is all about diversity. I am different and you are different."


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    you should admire her... i think most of the women would want to meet right away (for whatever reason) but this girl is willing to wait... that's a good move. get to know more each other, 3 weeks isn't even enough...if you are ready to meet up with her, then just a wait that she will invite you to come over. when that time comes, for sure you she's really interested in you too.


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