in my case i have seen my husband a few pic and letter from his ex,which is he lift it here now with me here in phil and his now in uk,i dont mind his keeping them its his remembrance for him i dont mind.coz for me he has a right to do fow what he wants we dont have a right to traw things what he has unless he is the one who is ask us to traw it.i think b4 u do that u should ask him first y he has keeping them.