The past

[Sophie]

hiya,

Just wondering what will you do if you found out your husband has still been keeping pictures and letters of his past 5 women? and what if when you threw it in a bin, he found out and got angry on you and said If you won't return it back you will have a major fall out??? that's just devastating ,isn't it? Do you think you have no right to throw it at all? or is it an insult for you cos you are the wife now and what's the point of keeping them? I think you will think that how can he lose you but not them past pictures and letters??? help plssss....

Hi conie First of all, i know it hurts to find out your hubby still keep photos and letters of his women in the past. But i think its not a good idea to just throw it all on the bin specially without his knowledge, its a bit disrespectful.
What i would do if i were on your shoes, is to talk to him about it and tell him how hurt and uncomfortable i feel about him still keeping and holding on to those photos and letters. And i will tell him straight and give him an ultimatum that if he don't get rid of those photos and letters, then we will have a falling out. It's either me or those photos and letters. And he has to be the one to get rid and throw it all on the bin, not me.