My fiance is breadwinner and will leave good job to be with me,thats why I suggest, long ago,a token payment every month to help parents and assume other family will take over the roll of providing parents, but i didnt expect the onus to be on us, as a married couple,to provide fully for parents or for my fiance to suggest,seemingly at the spur of the moment, extra work to this end.
Having thought well planned our matrimonial life together,we have discussed this at lengh and looked forum for answers.
There is one thing I am insistent in is, that I dont want a "part time wife" or seperate finances and any other monies required we need to work together for at our own small business as planned before.
Does this seem reasonable?My worry now is will there be enough to feed Mama and Papa?
