Hi there i just read your post & looking at it seems a little daunting to say the least lol but all i want ( if its that simple) is to go to philly next July to marry my partner there,i have known her almost 1 year now although we have never met in person,she has never married,has 2 children 8 & 11 by the same father whom is deceased. I think that by marrying her perhaps conceiving a child whilst there maybe may increase the chances of her living here with me or am i going about it the wrong way it just seems so complex and i dont know what to do.I dont expect you to be Marjorie Proops on the matter lol but am wondering if you could shed a bit more light on the matter it would be much appreciated thanks.Yours faithfully Tom Sheffield