Hi , sorry dident get back sooner seem thread has run a good bit , yes ELJOHNO yes i have been with my wife for 4 years, but i havent as yet aspplied for a spouse visa or a family permit , we only tried for a trourist visa and waited eight months , yes eight months to be told NO!
I asked her to find out why they had refuse her and they siad it was because she had not got enough money in her account, if htey hadof told me that i could have sent what ever she needed, it all seems a bit made up as they go along there, but we where told that would not go on her recored or effect any further applications , but to be honest i am going to go there hopefully next month and live with her till i can bring her home and deal with it myself , leaving her each time is to heart breaking for us both.
Just by the way, I have a friend (yes i do have one ) and he married a girl from siberia he couldent get her home as a brithish citezen he had to use his irish passport and it took him three years eventually, you need to be pretty sure of your relationships to go through this , or maybe it builds them i dont know all i can say is i love her more now than ever, but any way thanks for the comment and well wishes its noce to feel not so lonely in this situsation you all have helped me again thanks.
