i seek a relationship maybe a wife (Merged)

[pennybarry]

my friend been dating a girl in manchester for a few months she is from vietnham but i need advise is it normal for asian girls not to want sex with her boy friend... i have dated phil thai chinese women before but when i go to bed with this girl when i go to bed we would make love and it was normal thing to me.. but this vietnam women i have been dating always says she is too tired at night to make love . i dont know if im talking to much off this but she seems tired all the time. i need some help here beacause i dont know if we as a couple is compatable. when it comes to sex. to exsplain when i visited her she not see me for 2 weeks but only make love once and for her not seeing me long time is difficult for her. but it is me who travel to see her i live an hour by train away from her but every time she seems too tired for sex on a night i know she works hard but she sleeps alot she goes to bed between 10 and 11 oclock. but is it me or is it her? when it comes to sex it seems she becomes very selfish and i dont know what to do i cant talk to her about it because she wont lisen she just will get upset. and she seems to have periods for long time. like a long week and she wont have sex,, although that depends on her some times, we not been dating long but we dont have sex much normally when i start a relationship you have alot of sex am i exspecting too much? she keep saying i use her for sex when i got upset when she say have period and cant make love... is it me or what she dont seem to like make love with me.

Why not help your partner in her 3 business? That will make her happy and lessen her tiredness. You will be together and will know each other more. Who knows if you help her in any way you can, she will be the one to bring you in bed

[trader dave]

so as you was looking for another relationship yesterday i take it you are thinking of dumping this hard working girl ????

[future=dreams]

We have known each other for 10 months not met her yet but know i will shes is always where she says she will be. I trust her she trusts me and will meet her this year spend an extended time meeting family and getting to know her. Now sure sex doesn't get in the way 8,000 miles sees to that but we talk for hours about many things without falling out. But every time i see her on cam I think my god shes beautiful my maganda pinay and shes a big part of the reason I stopped smoking.
We will never be rich but i can take my pension to the phils and sure if we make good use of it can build a future together we are open and honest she remembers things i tell her and my family are accepting i intend to spend my life with her.
trust me im happy

[cool999]

thanks for your comments guys im 31 my past relationships were very sexual but she is not but she has the most giving heart of all maybe i should be more understanding and not so selfish i just needed some advise and a new way of looking at things from another perspective any commets are welcome though weather their good not good please be honest i will take the advise in and thank you

[cool999]

well if honest i was considering it as we are very different people. but maybe i should like some have said give her some slack...her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...

[Jay&Zobel]

.her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...

atleast she is an asset to the country (IMO) paying taxes and all...

[thejarvs]

well if honest i was considering it as we are very different people. but maybe i should like some have said give her some slack...her english is not good so talking on phone not easy.... hard to believe her here in uk but english still poor...

Excuse me! It seems English is obviously not your first language either!

hmmmmmm me thinks I better leave this thread alone or risk flaming

[joebloggs]

Excuse me! It seems English is obviously not your first language either!

hmmmmmm me thinks I better leave this thread alone or risk flaming