i seek a relationship maybe a wife (Merged)

[Jay&Zobel]

If you don't have things in common and you are not getting what you want or you are both unhappy, why don't you break up with her then? You will be giving both yourselves a very BIG FAVOUR!!!

Yes, it's given that she is nice & supportive when it comes to finances but a relationship should not be based on that but LOVE...

Questions are... do you love this girl? or does she love you? or is it just the "physical" thing?

in regards to your question yes i love her and she feels same i think - You think? You are not sure?

its just i think her personality is not what i would like ideally in a women
it dont feel equal it always feels like i have to come down to her level so we can communicate okay...but then you are unhappy with your relationship with her...don't you think you deserve to be happy too?..

she dont talk to me about things i cant read her mind Fair enough... In a relationship, the most important thing is COMMUNICATION! Yes physical attraction is just natural thing

you see i think i am a good person and havent cheated on her or any thing Then that's great if you stayed faithful despite of everything... It sounds like you really are unhappy with her. I'm sorry...

its just im coming to the stage in the relationship
and wondering do i want to spend the rest of my life with this girl. Yeah, true, it is only you who can decide whether you would want to spend your entire life with her...

maybe we are not compatiable or maybe im rushing things too That's the question or could also the answer...

You really need to have a good heart to heart talk with your GF you know... She may not be very fluent in speaking English but then there is nothing harm in trying right?... Just try, you might find the answers that you're looking for