what if we will be marry here soon this year by september 2009

for the reason im on my age 18 so no chance to get a spousal visa till im at the age of 21......soooooooooooo

i still have to wait for about 3 yrs to come b4r i reach 21 right?
so being a wife already i maybe can apply for a tourist visa temporarily
for the reason to come and visit my hubby and family
as my frnd did last year she is so succesful in getting visa at the age of 18 she is married in phil also w/ her british hubby.......but she came back to phil after 6 months
so myt be i have the chance to apply as tourist visa successfully???????????
