You or your wife have recently arrived in the UK on a spousal visa and have been blessed with a beautiful baby since arriving. You have great friends locally, some family in the UK and on the forum but unexpectedly the family is presented with an opportunity to relocate to Singapore or the Philippines on a significant increase of the main breadwinner's salary, plus generous benefits like private schooling, etc.

Obviously, there are pros and cons for each scenario but taking all of them into consideration what would you and your family decide to do?