Thanks again, we talked about it a lot last night and although disappointed i think she will be ok once the disappointment wears off.... dont they get upset...lol

She said a friend had come over on a work visa, but i thought that wasnt a good idea either, i dont want anything to spoil our chances.

I guess i am going to have to go over there, wish i could travel by land me and aircraft dont get on...lol.

I will keep you informed.

By the way ...brilliant site.

regards neil