Thanks again, we talked about it a lot last night and although disappointed i think she will be ok once the disappointment wears off.... dont they get upset...lol
She said a friend had come over on a work visa, but i thought that wasnt a good idea either, i dont want anything to spoil our chances.
I guess i am going to have to go over there, wish i could travel by land me and aircraft dont get on...lol.
I will keep you informed.
By the way ...brilliant site.
regards neil