Quote Originally Posted by Mrs Daddy View Post
Oh dear we`re on page 5 now!I am trying to digest your opinion guys and to be honest I find it very confusing and I am losing my mind now All I really hope for her is to get through all this mess and hopefully she`ll get her strenght back
Just be a friend. Show compassion and understanding. Don't be judgemental or try to impose your own views or beliefs. She will have enough emotional baggage right now without anyone adding more. What she needs is someone to show they care, and dare it be said, some love. There is no need to be confused about the different views being expressed here. They match the deep divide which exists on this issue, it's nothing new, they cannot be reconciled and you should not try. Separate your own position from your duty as a friend who has a friend in need. Good luck to you both.