Quote Originally Posted by tiger@tigress View Post
Age gap isn't really an issue... It's the personality and compatibility.... Hubby is older than me by number but never i felt that he really is older . We are very much compatible we both don't enjoy going out or hanging out with friends (bar, staying out late night). Don't get me wrong we do have friends... I guess woman are more matured than thier age by nature (or it's just Pinays). It's shouldn't make any difference as long as you have the same interest, you both laugh at the same things and most of all you LOVE EACH OTHER.
An important point.

It is how old the two of you actually are rather than in time on this planet.

If your both happy and content to do the same things at the same pace, or can leave at least part seperate lives so you can partake of your different intrests and what not.

Seen big age gaps in westen relationships but again they have similar lifestyles or understanding that they have differnt intrests and its not an issue.

Seen loads of old blokes of all backgrounds in places where you know they would never go of their own accord Some look relaxed with it as its for their loved ones benefit. Others look like they need to call the smartians

Same with Ladies some will tolerate or even enjoy football or the visit to the DIY shed others would rather be anywhere else.


Defintely no one size fits all with this subject.

I think all involved in these relationships need to also bear in mind if one is younger, is the possibilty will they later on have someform of "mid life crisis".

Seen a few people from varying backgrounds. Who had to grow up fast and have responsbilty when fairly young. Who later on needed new experiences,something diffrent, or simply wanted to party. Plenty of others seem to chug along though.

Yes I can think examples of some pinays who came over to the UK and married had kids at a young age, the husbands age varied in relation to the ladys some almost the same, others older. Some of these have shall we say acted as if in their teens/twenties..