ok we broke up because we argue alot so my heart feels broken hope you all happy we broke up....
ok we broke up because we argue alot so my heart feels broken hope you all happy we broke up....
Nothing to do with anyone on a forum cool,dont try to lay the carpet of blame at our feet
why are you feeling hurt?
at least you can chat with other woman without feeling guilty?
i dont think anyone will be happy you broke up,why do you think we will?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Originally Posted by cool999
are you blaming us
what we did,and why we are happy???????????
I am sad,but laughing..........coz u blaming us...
now stop feeling sorry for yourself and go and enjoy yourself
welcome back
Maybe a little less "cool(ness)" on YOUR part will, eventually, melt HER. Worth a try, mate!
Buy her a nice bunch of flowers then apologize to her.
i sent some flowers to her to say sorry i realize i really love her so much and my heart ack so much she want break up cos the arguments over small things make her sad.... you dont realize what you have until you lost it...
So sorry mate, don't give up on her, she might be playing hardball.
you dont realize what you have until you lost it...
u absolutely right
huh your so dramatic
all things are possible!
maybe she read your posts in this forum?
how did you buy the flowers as you havent a job?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
maybe she read your posts in this forum?
how did you buy the flowers as you havent a job?
ooops.. just kidding.
well, goodluck to you cool! hope you can sort things out with ur gf
ooopppsss in first place you lied
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
I hope you learn from your mistakes and treat the next girl/lady boy better
I hope you learn from your mistakes and treat the next girl/lady boy better
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
yes i made mistakes i was always looking for faults in her and making issues for no reason I;m my worst enemy. she dont like argue much. i sent her flowers through ebay on my credit card... maybe she might reconsider if i sort myself out with a job quickly she do so much for me and i relize i have been selfish and not caring. when she was unwell and sick for 2 weeks i not go to look after her she said she feel out of love by 50% when i not come.... money sort im in hard times i think maintaining a relationship is very hard if you dont work and have no money. not just me but i think many people find it hard if loose work and cant get work for long time i think if you guys have girl in asia will make relationship impossible dont you think?
you know i not had sex with her for 4 weeks but dont care about that only feel love so maybe this is the real thing for me. guys can i ask you if your girl friends english is not the best does it make a relationship difficult or do you try to make allowances for it???. remember when i said i had to come down to her level i was meaning her spoken english level was not very good so i had to talk slower and ask her repeat things some times
cool just try to chill out and experience being single again without any relations might give you time to think about yourself and sort out your situation first before committing yourself again...
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
Plenty of ladyboys in the sea!
Keith - Administrator
hi i tried to sort things but she ant willing to try again i dont really know why i think she is stuben she says love me but keeps saying i not happy when i leave her well who happy when you leave your girl.... i think its over to be honest she ant willing to try again but to be honest she been single for a long time maybe after she be on her own for a while she might change mind cos she feel lonely .... or maybe she find other man..... any way i guess i need start again .....
is the culture difference a big issue she was quite all the time she never tell me how she feels ie- does not talk ..... so if their is a problem she remains silent..... maybe the culture difference is very big....... maybe finding a westernised asian women is better as then she looks asian but because she western you get along better????
or maybe i;ll try a white girl next time see how that works out... clearly after i get a job...
i feel very sad at moment and will think next time around more... about how i act but i think having a few arguments is normal is it????? i think having a relationship with no aruments would be strange....
and if girl said dont want argue and you promise to try not to argue if she really love you wouldent she give me another chance////////
she said never lleave me but then she said had enough then breaks up.,, are women in general like this easy to say good bye????
Mark, Cristina & Raffy
Hi cool, nice to see you online, my question is out of topic, hope you dont mind !! Are you English guy?
Cool, I suggest that you make your life better.. on your own.. discover your worth.. discover life and learn to live it... you will find the one that suits you when the time is right.. and if you want to have the best girl, then be your best self first because you attract what you are..
good luck!
we all argue dont we?
but treat any woman you like,how you like to be treated!
there is a big difference in culture but if shes already going out with you,then that isnt the problem?
maybe you didnt just get along and depending on what you argued over put a stop to it?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
sex
cool, there could be men who had also the same problem as you had, But remember- You are You and that You only knew the solution for the problem or situation you are in now. Grew Up and learn ! Its not too late to pick up the pieces of your life..............
i appreciate your advise guys as to one question that was asked i am english my orgins go back hundreds of years.
maybe if i exsplain what we argued about maybe you can tell me where i went wrong i hope i dont sound like a uncaring guy....
i will try to remember the arguments we had
what pops to mind is like you guys all know she has a bussiness in the market in manchester
she told me in beginning she was having hard time due to the recession and i because i had done marketing at uni and gained hnd in graphic design gave her my advise i advised her to put a 20% promotion to increase bussiness she wouldent budge on lowing her prices... then i thought about designing some leaflets giving a tempoary 20% discount which lasted for a month.. but when i spent like 2 days doing these designs and printing them out aswell as copy the files on to cd for her when i showed her she said thank you and that was all she said she never used the designs either......
i also some weeks later printed out 200 leaflets and one saturday before seeing her i spent all day in the cold handing out leaflets to customers in the street .... again after doing it she did not seem very grateful...
then i made a music mp3 cd compli... on 9 cds for her shop she said thank you too but just a thanks you might say this to a friend not to a close boyfriend...
then i she asked me about setting up a cctv system and asked my advise she said she would ask every one who new and some friends who had shops the thing is i told her i did video at college and knew about systems that she needs... it felt like she dident respect my advise and when i told her what to get she said no and she wanted to see for her self but all systems look the same and she knew nothing. i told her that her problem is she had 3 seperate shops near each other but needed a camera system setting up that could be connected to all the cameras normally if you got one shop easy easy to set up but if you got 3 shops and only want to use one recorder it complicated to say the least.... she only wanted spend little money so it was hard to exsplain plus her english was not great i tried to exsplain but knew she wouldent understand.
then i thought about buying her a cheap tv for £10 as a way to help her so she could watch when it is set up she then said i dont want second hand tv i told her it be ok for know until you can aford a nice flat screen . but she dident want.. i felt like she was being ungrateful..
i then after looking into cctv technology because i was thinking about a wireless system that would be the cheapest way round it for 3 shops found out interfrience would be a big problem if wireless internet was in the area wireless cameras would not work well... so i decided to write a letter to manchester market asking for some advise as i thought they would have to put in cables for cable based cameras.... then she went crazy on the phone and started shouting at me saying why dont i ask her first i said im doing you a faver here and your english is not great they wont understand what your trying to say and i did tell her to talk to the market about it a month ago .
these are the main arguments we had but i kept asking her why she dont apprciate what i did for her. if she did some thing for me i would say thank you hug her and kiss her but she only says a very lazy thank you to me.
when you spend days doing graphic designs i was hoping for a very gratful reaction like when you open chrimas presents but she seemed unemotional or happy with what i had done for her.
and when i ask her she just says i did say thank you...
oh before i forgot this was one of the other arguments we had i went over to manchester 6 times she visited me just once and she drives and has a car and i dont.
one day she said she was coming to see me on a sunday.... that was around 11 am so i waited 6 hours and herd nothing from her so i got ready had shower ironed my cloths shaved made myself look nice 6 hours later i got a text back saying im still in cos co thats a wholesale super market in manchester i felt she was rude not texting me or ring me for 6 hours then she said i think too late to come it only takes 1 hour to drive from manchester to me.....
am i being wrong her am i making arguments for no reason?
then i emailed her about these things and then she said the following
yes the culture difirent is big problem betwen us. i know u love me and i love u but we dont understand togeter. too much argue its over enough.
im sorry if i said some thing wrong .thank you for ur time u do things for me
u dont need to give me money back. please let me know when u pass ur driving test. i still happy for u event i dont have change to seat in ur car
i dont regret to spend money on u cos i want to help u
hope u find some one beter than me can make u happy
just read ur messages please dont buy any thing for me in the hard time u dont have job. please cancel it. i know u want to prove ur love i know u still love me in ur way and i still love u inside. i was think alots a bout us. we know each other 3 months but i dont remember how many time we argue how many time i had cryed and upset. u see me about 6 times but u never happy after u left me. i was seriour to love and look after u and pland our future. but what happend come what i dont expected
i dont blame u i dont blame any one . in my mine u r still very nice english bf. in my mine english very nice people
i sent her two lots of flowers to ask for forgivness cos i love her but i think she dont want to talk to me cos she ignore the text messages i sent her....
am i taking things too badly am i at fault i appreciate honest opinions i will thake your opinions to heart as i wear my heart ... please excuse spelling errors...
thanks for your advise...
mmmm well bassically i lived my live in bradford my gradad was born in bardford and my mother comes from wales so half welsh half english and i guess a tiny bit of american but that is about an 8th which is not much i think...
before i forgot yes we did argue a little about sex she never has sex before she goes to sleep because she says she is tired but she says that even when she has not been working...
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