ok we broke up because we argue alot so my heart feels broken hope you all happy we broke up....
ok we broke up because we argue alot so my heart feels broken hope you all happy we broke up....
Nothing to do with anyone on a forum cool,dont try to lay the carpet of blame at our feet
why are you feeling hurt?
at least you can chat with other woman without feeling guilty?
i dont think anyone will be happy you broke up,why do you think we will?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
Originally Posted by cool999
are you blaming us
what we did,and why we are happy???????????
I am sad,but laughing..........coz u blaming us...
now stop feeling sorry for yourself and go and enjoy yourself
welcome back
Maybe a little less "cool(ness)" on YOUR part will, eventually, melt HER. Worth a try, mate!
Buy her a nice bunch of flowers then apologize to her.
i sent some flowers to her to say sorry i realize i really love her so much and my heart ack so much she want break up cos the arguments over small things make her sad.... you dont realize what you have until you lost it...
So sorry mate, don't give up on her, she might be playing hardball.
you dont realize what you have until you lost it...
u absolutely right
maybe she read your posts in this forum?
how did you buy the flowers as you havent a job?
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
maybe she read your posts in this forum?
how did you buy the flowers as you havent a job?
ooops.. just kidding.
well, goodluck to you cool! hope you can sort things out with ur gf
ooopppsss in first place you lied
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
I hope you learn from your mistakes and treat the next girl/lady boy better
I hope you learn from your mistakes and treat the next girl/lady boy better
i have learnt to do what my wife says!
yes i made mistakes i was always looking for faults in her and making issues for no reason I;m my worst enemy. she dont like argue much. i sent her flowers through ebay on my credit card... maybe she might reconsider if i sort myself out with a job quickly she do so much for me and i relize i have been selfish and not caring. when she was unwell and sick for 2 weeks i not go to look after her she said she feel out of love by 50% when i not come.... money sort im in hard times i think maintaining a relationship is very hard if you dont work and have no money. not just me but i think many people find it hard if loose work and cant get work for long time i think if you guys have girl in asia will make relationship impossible dont you think?
you know i not had sex with her for 4 weeks but dont care about that only feel love so maybe this is the real thing for me. guys can i ask you if your girl friends english is not the best does it make a relationship difficult or do you try to make allowances for it???. remember when i said i had to come down to her level i was meaning her spoken english level was not very good so i had to talk slower and ask her repeat things some times
but she not reply to my text messages so i think she want finish and not give me another chance...
the english can be a problem if you was trying to communicate on webcam
i think having a ldr with someone who cannot speak or understands english would be a pain in the
i dont blaim her who wants a jobless guy... she said dont care i dont work but i think she does care...but not say it does.....and maybe because i dont work i cause arguments cos i got too much time on my hands...
Cheersyou know i not had sex with her for 4 weeks but dont care about that only feel love so maybe this is the real thing for me. - Please do remember, sex is ONLY A PART of a successful & healthy relationship...
guys can i ask you if your girl friends english is not the best does it make a relationship difficult or do you try to make allowances for it???. remember when i said i had to come down to her level i was meaning her spoken english level was not very good so i had to talk slower and ask her repeat things some times - Everyone makes allowances, you have to remember English is not her native dialect. Some find it really hard to understand the English Accent (I too, struggled for a bit at one point, but I told my bf (now my husband) to speak slowly & clearly hehe. I also remember I have to ask him couple of times what he was saying as he mumbles lol (nevermind)... (Filipinos are more used to hearing American Accent than British accent)... but as time goes by, I got used to hearing his voice
It's compromising you see... it's part of learning & knowing each other's weaknesses... HELPING TO GROW EACH OTHER...
Hope things will be well with you soon!
i sent her 2 lots of flowers to her shop today and sent her a pansy plant and some seeds for her home do you think it will do any thing for her what would a women think if she finish with bf but then he do these things?
hardball... some one said this what does it mean???? is she waiting to see what i am willing to do to get her back is that it?
If you dont have a job you`re no good to her mate. She just wants you to send her and her family money, not pansies....
no she is not like that she pay herself and if any thing she gave me money she is not a bad person she gives money to her family yes that is true but she works hard to do this and does not need me for that dont disrespect asian women not all are looking to use men for money... some do yes that is true but i will not let any one say jenny is like that she runs 3 shops has her own house and a nice car she is not like that and i care about her so much
So why the heck you go and look for other women online and ask silly questions about sex and stuff here on the forum...???
I have to commend you for tenacity tho, with all the stick you been getting from the members, which seem to be in total agreement, I'd have given up.....
Now be good and work your way into her affections again.
Don't bug her, have a nice face to face chat and if you really care, you don't give a damn about what kind of job you look for, just go self employed and sell double glazing.
You have to earn her admiration and love again, it doesn't come to you as a God given right....
Well for a start I never said all asian women are like that!
As you care for her so much then keep your sexual questions to yourself and respect her. Imagine what she`d think if she knew the sort of stuff you ask!
Id` suggest also that you gain some sort of employment and show her how you wish to improve.
As she knows you dont have a job she will also know that you`re borrowing the money to send her flowers, which is no good to either of you.
She`s more likely to be impressed with you gaining employment than that.
Also very importantly, learn about punctuation. I get out of breath reading your posts........
Moaning for SEX again
You have now time to look for a SEX MACHINE
sorry to you guys if i seem selfish. as for the sex well my past relationships were alot different but thats the past so i guess i should get over it.
as for the lady boy thing just forget it i was just messing about.
your very right about getting any thing and try to earn her love again.
so i am going to just do that spend alot of time to get a job even cleaning job get back into her heart if i can but must amit cant stop thinking about her.
but yes i got alot to make up for and need to prove to her she can trust me again...
she is a wonderful women and i need to sort things out and get a job for more self respect then maybe she respect me more and also give me a better life and not give me loads of time too.
i guess i been very silly and messing her heart around too and need to do things to show her i am some one she wants to stay with is this the correct approach guys?
by the way i am sorry if you feel i am mis using this formum....
i think the reason i was looking for a girl was i was unsure of her i was just keeping my options open which was the wrong thing to do know i relize she is the one and only i gotta do alot i hope she can forgive me and start again...
but first thing first i need get a job find a place of my own im living with parents till i sort myself out. but your advise has been helpful thank you...
has any one broken up with a women but then after thinking about it the guy decided she is the one and wants her back is it hard to regain her love what steps did you do if this did happen i apprciate your advise...
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