i think the problem is here a difference in culture in raising a baby?

with my wife we both have different views on raising a baby and i know we will only argue unless we do it my wifes way?

in the uk we will have a different way to raising a baby than in the philipines,so try to adapt and understand there will be a difference in the uk and the phils?

and tell your hubby how you feel,if your mother in law is so over bearing your hubby will already know this.A good hubby will support you and tell his mother how you are feeling?

try not to be so sensitive and jumpy when your mom inlaw is around she maybe just trying to help? why not try to discuss with her the difference in raising your baby!