southwest guy interested in mailing nice honest filipino

[Mrs Daddy]

Nope, I was in the middle like you

ihave been there b4DI jumped into conclusion

[bornatbirth]

let's not all blame it to womaninlove here guys and girls..
don't get me wrong borna i think what you said to her it's not right either. specially she's a woman like us, it's kinda ungentleman. i'm sure it got to her temper that's why she reacted that way. though she got it too far, as what mrs.daddy said it's all misunderstanding.

maybe another Zagu here, anyone? (just making you all smile)


cheers everyone!

I read thier changing post again, and unfortunately Bornabirth is the one who said offensive word at first (dumbest member) I am sure any filipina will react if some one told you, your dumbest member, I am sure you dont want anyone to insult you.

Its just so happen Bornabirth was respected member and she is newcomer that why she got the hit of the belt from father, my opinion

try reading her posts before i even posted to her,i can give you the links to them if you like!!

and we can all see how nice she was?

[Mrs.JMajor]

try reading her posts before i even posted to her,i can give you the links to them if you like!!

and we can all see how nice she was?

I did (read) already all her post as in "all" from the very start, including introduction section of herself....

So as I said, you shut up na cause you won na nga eh, grrrrr

[adam&chryss]

try reading her posts before i even posted to her,i can give you the links to them if you like!!

and we can all see how nice she was?

yep i did read it... as i have said it's all misunderstanding. i didn't say womaninlove is a nice girl here.
and my understanding in this thread it ended to 'nagkapikunan na'.

i reacted to your post bec. we Filipinas hates to be called dumb by men. that's why womaninlove exploded here and the rest of her post has been really rude after.

Zagu kayo dyan?

[Pepe n Pilar]

in the uk at the age of 18 you are classed as a adult and we are also shown to respect our elders!

are filipinos taught to be nice and polite maybe womaninlove skipped that class?

try reading womaninlove posts and you will find her ill mannered,rude and mean!! and thats before i gave her the dumbest member award,two members have posted they will leave the forum after getting womaninlove wonderful informative posts!!

i was just teasing her as i know she will snap back and show herself up

maybe im reading something different from what she is posting to the rest of you?

if you cant take it,dont give it!

maybe we should all learn some netiquette,some more than others!!

btw showing your butt in the west is more funny than rude?

I agree with all you have said here. She definitely is tactless. It is obvious unless a person doesn't know what tactless means or is ignoring her posts.

[Pepe n Pilar]

Based from what I read here, there were no judgments made on any person. The judgments were done on the icons used. Yes, these are only icons, but, it is invented for a reason and the purpose of which is to replace the words. As internet savvy individuals,we all operate based on Netiquette (net etiquette). Right?... just like we are guided by the social etiquette norms in our real world, netiquette acts as our guide to the virtual world.

Going back to netiquette, being rude is still not an excuse here. The icons should be used properly so as not to be misinterpreted. A lot of you are claiming that you have been misinterpreted... but of course! this is internet. The communication process we're using is very limited as we only rely on the text and the icons so we better be careful on what we type here. If we (receiver of the message) feels appalled, insulted, or harassed by the sender's message, then it is the sender's responsibility to correct the miscommunication.

So, if the butt icons were seen as insulting to some receivers, then the user of the icon should be able to communicate clearly the intent of using the butt icons. This also applies to all the other icons. Since this is only texts and icons, all the more that we have to be careful on what icons to use as we have a lot of different readers with different mindsets. Use it as it is intended to be used. .. but that doesn't mean that you have the license to overdue the use of the icons.

Example:

Use of capital letters would mean shouting
Use of exclamation point would mean shouting
Use of red texts would mean anger
And so many netiquette rules ( I have learned this during the Mirc days.. hehehe)

So, for the new users of internet, I hope you will still be mindful of the netiquette rules so as not to create havoc in this virtual world that we all love. Some may tell me "*******s" to what I am saying here.. but, it would still be nice if we will act nicely and more decently, even in the world wide web... as behind these icons and texts, are human users... nothing to lose if we play nice, right?

You certainly got it right!....Very well said Florge!...We, the internet users should be aware of the words, icons and punctuation marks we read/see in the message. Netiquette rules should not be disregarded or ignored. It is like in our Communication subject, the punctuation marks does a great impact in a sentence. We don't hear how words are being said here and so by means of these icons and punctuation marks, we will know or feel how the message is being conveyed to us.
We all know the icons created in this forum has help us all so we could express more of what we wanted to say to the recipient. So use icons appropriately..

[Mrs.JMajor]

Chryss, Zagu please additional black pearl, latte flavor

[Sophie]

Your right, pinagtulungan at kinatay na agad ang kababayan Sometimes its nice to be in the middle and let them stop rather than in one side

It’s not about ganging up on her Juliet…..It’s about trying to right a wrong
And as you said, she is just a kid, so she doesn’t know any better
And we as adults, its our responsibility to correct and point out to her if she’s going a bit too far,
its for her own good, otherwise if we let her be, then she will carry on like that
and she might end up messing with the wrong person later on, and get her in more trouble….
By this time, she should know better…
You should understand this Juliet, as you did thesame to fatedtoloveyou
when she was so mean and rude on her posts at NVQ thread….
and if I remember it correctly, there were a few not so nice words exchanged there too,
which is completely understandable because clearly, she is rude and mean as well and winding up some members….

And for what its worth, we never argued with woman in love, we just spoke once and that’s it….
And it’s not our intention to pick a fight, we just said what we feel is necessary
and i suppose we are entitled to our opinion as much as everyone else here…
Nothing personal, just trying to be an adult and teaching a kid to be nice on her posts, that’s just our intentions
and I’m more referring to her posts to strangemikan before, and skinny English guy yesterday,
this people were nice and in good faith and never said anything wrong and she misjudged them and criticized them impartially…….
and her argument with BAB just started because BAB stood up for skinny English guy who was being judged unfairly by her

We have to play fair here…..give credit to what is due and discredit what is bad……
And i find "ganging up on her" accusation a bit more of an impartial judgement
because clearly that is never the intention and i just want to stress and reiterate that.....

[Mrs.JMajor]

We have to play fair here…..

You got it ...........

OK Sophie, but we had Administrator here as well as Moderator to read all our post,

Who can decide or say what is good nor bad to anyone.



As we are not in the position to judge anyone......So as what you said lets "play fair here"

[aromulus]

Peace..... Huh...?

[Sophie]

You got it ...........

OK Sophie, but we had Administrator here as well as Moderator to read all our post,

Who can decide or say what is good nor bad to anyone.



As we are not in the position to judge anyone......So as what you said lets "play fair here"

ok, fair enough

[Pepe n Pilar]

Chryss, Zagu please additional black pearl, latte flavor

With banana cake pls!..

[charlwill]

[/QUOTE]

So, for the new users of internet, I hope you will still be mindful of the netiquette rules so as not to create havoc in this virtual world that we all love. Some may tell me "*******s" to what I am saying here.. but, it would still be nice if we will act nicely and more decently, even in the world wide web... as behind these icons and texts, are human users... nothing to lose if we play nice, right?

Very well said, Florge and you really explain it well. Hope all the forumist should now understand how to use the icons properly. So that, no more misunderstanding between the senders and the receivers.

You certainly got it right!....Very well said Florge!...We, the internet users should be aware of the words, icons and punctuation marks we read/see in the message. Netiquette rules should not be disregarded or ignored. It is like in our Communication subject, the punctuation marks does a great impact in a sentence. We don't hear how words are being said here and so by means of these icons and punctuation marks, we will know or feel how the message is being conveyed to us.
We all know the icons created in this forum has help us all so we could express more of what we wanted to say to the recipient. So use icons appropriately..

Very true, P&P. Some of us here, use/used icons even thought it's not appropriate to what they wanted to say. They must use the icons appropriately so that, they can convey the message well and so that receivers can understand them properly.

It’s not about ganging up on her Juliet…..It’s about trying to right a wrong
And as you said, she is just a kid, so she doesn’t know any better
And we as adults, its our responsibility to correct and point out to her if she’s going a bit too far,
its for her own good, otherwise if we let her be, then she will carry on like that
and she might end up messing with the wrong person later on, and get her in more trouble….
By this time, she should know better…
You should understand this Juliet, as you did thesame to fatedtoloveyou
when she was so mean and rude on her posts at NVQ thread….
and if I remember it correctly, there were a few not so nice words exchanged there too,
which is completely understandable because clearly, she is rude and mean as well and winding up some members….

And for what its worth, we never argued with woman in love, we just spoke once and that’s it….
And it’s not our intention to pick a fight, we just said what we feel is necessary
and i suppose we are entitled to our opinion as much as everyone else here…
Nothing personal, just trying to be an adult and teaching a kid to be nice on her posts, that’s just our intentions
and I’m more referring to her posts to strangemikan before, and skinny English guy yesterday,
this people were nice and in good faith and never said anything wrong and she misjudged them and criticized them impartially…….
and her argument with BAB just started because BAB stood up for skinny English guy who was being judged unfairly by her

We have to play fair here…..give credit to what is due and discredit what is bad……
And i find "ganging up on her" accusation a bit more of an impartial judgement
because clearly that is never the intention and i just want to stress and reiterate that.....

You said it all Sophie, loud and clear.

OK Sophie, but we had Administrator here as well as Moderator to read all our post,

Who can decide or say what is good nor bad to anyone

Very true, we have the Admin and the Moderators. But we should as well, act as Moderators to ourselve. We should guard ourselves on what we say and do.

As we are not in the position to judge anyone......

Again, very true. We're not in the position to judge and we're not judging anyone here. We're only replying to a certain post. Don't be so blind and deaf to what the person said. She said too much and she's jumped to the throat.

[Pepe n Pilar]

You got it ...........

OK Sophie, but we had Administrator here as well as Moderator to read all our post,

Who can decide or say what is good nor bad to anyone.



As we are not in the position to judge anyone......So as what you said lets "play fair here"

We have administrators and moderators here but we as forum members has to be responsible on our own posts/replies. We do know what is right and wrong. We don't have to wait for them to say it.
We are not judging here. We just give out our views, opinions, comments on the given thread or replies or to posts we know that we have something to share on with.
I guess Sophie is referring to "let's play fair" here means we have to consider every angle on the given subject. If one keeps on messing with another person or being rude then we will know by ourselves if he/she is doing the right thing or not. So by being fair, we don't side with the rude, tactless posts...

[Mrs.JMajor]

I expect this........

[aromulus]

About skinnyenglishguy

Biography

have now left this forum. not a nice place

Location england



Thanks a lot guys and dolls...

I am not going to look for anyone to blame for this guy's sudden departure, but certainly the handbag fights of the last couple of days didn't help....

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