Originally Posted by Arthur Little
Only with GREAT difficulty ... and even then, a lot would depend upon the circumstances and/or the manner in which he/she/they did so.
I suppose if I were to be truly honest with myself here, Phil, I would have to say ""
... hmm, perhapsss ... again, depending on the nature of the hurt. But, on balance,I'm still in agreement with Phil's reasoning.
For me yes.... I'm thankful to them they made me strong person. And forgiving is for me is one key to be more HAPPY.
The priest told me when i asked for an advice when I'm deeply hurt and very depressed. He said forgive him and stop thinking about what happened because its like a wound if you keep touching or scratching it will not heal and will always hurt you. And dont forget to pray to God and ask for help to forget someone because it's not really easy that's why we have TIME. Time to heal.Sound advice from a much respected figure, I have to admit! Even so, there are certain things that happened to me in my working life which I find hard to dismiss 20 and more years on. Nor can I forget the bullyingI was subjected to at school - from teachers and fellow pupils alike - upwards of half a century ago. The memory of such treatment, alas is never likely to fade.
However, we can agree to disagree here as, after all, debate is what this (or indeed any kind of forum) is all about. So I would like to extend a warm welcome to you.
haha haha... Make up your mind Arthur lol...
SO I SEE YOUR ANSWER IS: IT DEPENDS LOL..
