can a child file for a visit visa...?

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hi Mrs.JMAjor,.. thanks for the idea, but its hard to leave my kids here and my bf deoesnt like that idea too.., The kids needs me so much and not used to be away from me and same with me too I'm not used to be away from them.

But thank you for sharing your idea,..God bless you always!

I am still in crying mode most of the time especially b4 go to bed, thinking of my 4 yrs old that I left in PI, same thing since I gave birth to him, we havent been apart, but I already apply his dependant visa last June 01 and we are just waiting for the visa, life sometimes need sacrifice sis, and as hubby keep telling me, "no pain no gain"

[aryM]

I am still in crying mode most of the time especially b4 go to bed, thinking of my 4 yrs old that I left in PI, same thing since I gave birth to him, we havent been apart, but I already apply his dependant visa last June 01 and we are just waiting for the visa, life sometimes need sacrifice sis, and as hubby keep telling me, "no pain no gain"

How long have you been there Mrs. JMajor? How did you cope with the change of lifestyle and culture there?

I wish i am as strong as you... i like the "no pain no gain" idea, but still don't know if i can do the same like you did... but i'll think of it,.. thanks so much again my friend...

[Mrs.JMajor]

How long have you been there Mrs. JMajor? How did you cope with the change of lifestyle and culture there?

I wish i am as strong as you... i like the "no pain no gain" idea, but still don't know if i can do the same like you did... but i'll think of it,.. thanks so much again my friend...

Arrived here last March 01, lifestyle doesnt make any difference, culture not much as well, but the weather that was the big deal for us filipino since we came from humid country, but I am 100% you can adopt the weather so quick, you wouldnt believe i even have runny nose, sore nose keep wiping it and even got fever lol but after 1 month, wow yes I made it

And also I dont have relatives nor siblings/parents to care for my kids while I am away, just a trusted friends, its terrible, but your right I born as a strong person, just think of it the reason why you'll gonna do all those is because for your kids, loads of things want to share to you but I will try to tell you in private, alright Good luck. Just some words of inspiration to you

[aryM]

Arrived here last March 01, lifestyle doesnt make any difference, culture not much as well, but the weather that was the big deal for us filipino since we came from humid country, but I am 100% you can adopt the weather so quick, you wouldnt believe i even have runny nose, sore nose keep wiping it and even got fever lol but after 1 month, wow yes I made it

And also I dont have relatives nor siblings/parents to care for my kids while I am away, just a trusted friends, its terrible, but your right I born as a strong person, just think of it the reason why you'll gonna do all those is because for your kids, loads of things want to share to you but I will try to tell you in private, alright Good luck. Just some words of inspiration to you

Thanks again my friend.., how can i talk to you privately?

My bf does not really like the idea of leaving the kids here, he loves my kids and considered them as his own,. he said "we must stick together.." He also wants us to meet his family there. As of this time, i would rather not go there without my kids. I guess we just have to be more patient in gathering some informations so that we can decide for the right things to do. But i really do appreciate your ideas Mrs. JM, it was sch a great help for me in coming up a decision.

We love each other so much, and we also love the kids so much... "we must stick together" as what he has said and hopefully we'll be able to do what we have planned.,or maybe think of a much easier way...

God bless you and your family Mrs. JMajor

Where in UK do you live?