Exactly,never look at a country through Rose tinted spectacles,I know a guy,John,lives in west drayton in Middlesex,he has been to pinas 3 or 4 times with his wife?He has never once wandered around on his own,he is always chaperoned,either by his wife or her siblings,all he experiences is the good things,after all,his wife is hardly likely to take him around the squatter areas or downtown areas is she Its always best to look at the full picture instead of the section in the corner