In my opinion, a marriage vow is not a rule neither a condition
It is a commitment between a husband and wife to love each other :
-For better or for worse
-For richer or for poorer
-In sickness and in health
-Till death do us part
Hence love is ideally meant to be unconditional,
but humans as we are, its not always easy to give unconditional love
as we are mostly inclined to setting parameters on how far we can give...........
I totally agree with you amiga!
Be responsible with little so that you can be trusted with much!!
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