I totally agree. Loving someone is like having a whole package with all its good and bad, accepting both his desirable and undesirable traits, loving even the most loathsome thing about him, learning to forgive and forget.
However, some men set rules only known to themselves. They set these rules without properly communicating and were always implying things and when women failed to meet their standards, they'd dump them.
I have loved many times, unconditionally, but, I guess, I am doomed to be alone forever.