Not going well

[cruisingkerry]

Hi everyone,

haven't been here for a long time.

Just wanted to let you all know things aren't going at all well with me and Bert. He is eventually on a ship which comes to the UK, I went to visit him in Glasgow, then in Southampton. Which were both great, it was great to be together again and it was as if we'd never been apart.

3 weeks later I drove back down to Southampton where he dropped the bombshell that he didn't think he'd be able to live here in the UK because he msses his son too much and wants to go back to the Phils to live, his son needs him more than I do he says.

gutted! as you would be. Haven't heard from him since and that was 10 days go, have tried to call him a couple of times but always just goes to voicemail. Same kind of thing happened last year so no doubt he'll call out of the blue one day. just have to wait and see really.

So just wanted to give you an update....

K xx

[IainBusby]

Hi Kerry,
It's nice to hear from you again, although I'm sorry to hear thing aint going so good with you and Bert. But always remember, absence makes the heart grow fonder and maybe he will reconsider this decision when he finds himself missing you, as I'm sure he will.
Iain.

[Jay&Zobel]

I'm sorry K.

Hope you are ok.

[Alan]

Good luck Kerry. Our thoughts are with you.

Al.

[Ann07]

Sorry to hear that kerry.
Hope he will contac you soon

[Mrs.JMajor]

Hellooooooooo,wow been missing you a lot, and I just log on the forum so I had friend request, lol and just into my surprise its you, quickly accept it and go forum and check if you made any thread and so you are,welcome back dear, haven't read what you say in the thread thou...brb I'm gonna read what you up to now

Awwww and so it was... No comment I am just sad to hear that really, Hope you will hear news from him in the soonest time

[Tawi2]

I actually expected all the ladies to say if this is the second time he has kept you dangling on a string dump him

[Jay&Zobel]

I actually expected all the ladies to say if this is the second time he has kept you dangling on a string dump him

TrueTrueTrue! But we will see... Still sad though

[Tawi2]

TrueTrueTrue! But we will see... Still sad though

Yeah,only going from some of the old posts I have read,if a woman messes a guy around all the ladies say "Dump her,theres plenty more around" if a guy cant even be bothered to answer calls and the lady appears to be the one doing all the running there seems to be something wrong in the relationship deep down if all the effort is one sided

[maria_and_matt]

Yeah,only going from some of the old posts I have read,if a woman messes a guy around all the ladies say "Dump her,theres plenty more around" if a guy cant even be bothered to answer calls and the lady appears to be the one doing all the running there seems to be something wrong in the relationship deep down if all the effort is one sided

no offence to anybody.. but that is filipino men for you.. i remember my ex grrrrrrrrrr i wont even go there

[Mrs.JMajor]

Yeah,only going from some of the old posts I have read,if a woman messes a guy around all the ladies say "Dump her,theres plenty more around" if a guy cant even be bothered to answer calls and the lady appears to be the one doing all the running there seems to be something wrong in the relationship deep down if all the effort is one sided

Tawi, Do u know that kerry is english woman and Bert is filipino guy

[Tawi2]

I actually expected all the ladies to say if this is the second time he has kept you dangling on a string dump him

Sophie,you just said what I thought every single woman would have said in the beginning It does sound like one way traffic,driving to scotland,then southampton,whereas theres no mention of the effort the guys putting in to keep the relationship alive,and not even having the decency to respond when someones putting in the effort to phone you

[Sophie]

Sophie,you just said what I thought every single woman would have said in the beginning It does sound like one way traffic,driving to scotland,then southampton,whereas theres no mention of the effort the guys putting in to keep the relationship alive,and not even having the decency to respond when someones putting in the effort to phone you

Exactly
In my observation, this one looks more like a one-way relationship............no offense meant kerry, just an opinion

[Tawi2]

Yup,no malice nor offence intended,but the lady seems to be doing all the running and the guy seems to be taking it for granted,if someone turned off their phone for 10 days and never even bothered answering a call then what does that say about their commitment to a relationship?

[Mrs.JMajor]

Tawi2 is single lol...

I am a bit too old and decrepit jay

Wonder if she like british,

Exactly
In my observation, this one looks more like a one-way relationship............no offense meant kerry, just an opinion

Dont want to hurt you, but that what I think Kerry, filipino guy is very clever to deceive, pretend to be single when they are not in thier homeland

[Sconnie]

Hi Kerry,
Sorry to hear this news, whatever happens we wish you all the best, keep smiling....

[Mrs.JMajor]

Yeah, nothing bad at all,

[Tawi2]

Kerry will be fine,but if it were me I would re-evalue things,its a decent drive from Durham down to Southampton,takes me 5 hours from London to Penshaw where my sis lives,and the same to Ryhope where my parents live,both places are in Durham I wouldnt phone a woman who treated me like that,if she didnt answer the phone within a day or two her loss,erase the number,lots of guys out there looking for a decent woman

[Jay&Zobel]

Kerry, lots of guys out there looking for a decent woman

Tawi2 is single lol...

[Sim11UK]

I'm sorry to hear this Kerry, hope it all works itself out.
I know you enjoyed your time spent in the Philippines.

[Tawi2]

I am a bit too old and decrepit jay

[maria_and_matt]

I am a bit too old and decrepit jay

awwwww.... poor you..

[tiN]

Hope things will work out soon Kerry, just be strong

[cruisingkerry]

Hi,
just wanted to say, not sure if tawi understands that bert is on a ship and can't just go where he wants like I can. When he's in port he may only have 3-4 hours off, not long enough to go even half way near my house.

It'll all work out the way its supposed to, will just get on with life for now.

Thanks all xx

[Tawi2]

Didnt realise the time restrictions kerry,but a phone call is common courtesy

[LEAHnew]

Hi,
just wanted to say, not sure if tawi understands that bert is on a ship and can't just go where he wants like I can. When he's in port he may only have 3-4 hours off, not long enough to go even half way near my house.

It'll all work out the way its supposed to, will just get on with life for now.

Thanks all xx

Goodluck kerry

[aromulus]

Sorry, kid....

[pennybarry]

Sorry to hear that Kerry but there's always have a good reason why things happened.

Did you feel something strange when you were in Pinas b4? His little boy must not be the problem. Hoping he'll tell you the truth to set you free.

cheer up!

[Mrs Daddy]

sori to hear the sad news kerry...hope things will get better soon!