It IS a serious matter. Consider, if I am right, it affects your eternal destination. I write these things seriously because of compassion in my heart for you all. It is NOT God's will that any should perish, therefore I have a mandate from God to present these things with the hope that some WILL take these things seriously. I desire that ALL should know Jesus like I know Him. He is amazing and His love is so wonderful. I know He is alive and He has changed my life. He has put light into my soul. It is like the brightness of the sun. Because I know Him everything becomes so much clearer. Regarding letting my hair down, ask my wife. She finds me hilarious as I have a real sense of humour.